Don't self-diagnose. There could be a million reasons why you can't relate to people or need certain routines in the morning.

Though that "not being able to read people" is usually pretty indicative of something on the autism spectrum. IDK, that would be the key thing I would look for in any "diagnosis." If only shrinks remembered this key trait, there'd be less of it being overdiagnosed.

Go to a professional who can more accurately help with these issues.