Rambledy-rant.

[dreamingpixels]

Had dinner with Bryan and his family last night, and it was... interesting. Apparently, according to Bryan's grandparents, we're changing the date of our wedding! To August 1st, so it "inconveniences less people".

O RLY?

I understand that the date isn't the greatest for everyone, but honestly, Grandma Carey and Mike (my future father in law) want us to change the date of our wedding so it's more convenient for them. It's not just wanting, but outright pressuring. And I don't like it. Absolutely don't like it. This is our wedding, not theirs. WHAT THE FUCK.

Also, Kathy (my future mom in law) is pushing that we serve a whole meal at the wedding. WE CAN'T FUCKING AFFORD THAT. Should have just eloped before we even sent out the save the date cards.

Fuck. I just can't win, even with my own damn wedding.

Comments

[amethystfirefly]

Ugh! I'm sorry. :( -hugs-

[kaeleersheart]

Go get eloped now! :P to them!

[crystalchord]

Y'know, I would tell your future mother in law that if she wanted to pay for the meal that she could do that, and it would help you out because you two can't afford that.

And as for Bryan's grandparents, they can either make it to your planned date or they can't. Seriously, you shouldn't let them try and get their way with your wedding; it's just super-rude.

[dreamingpixels]

Thing is, though, Bryan's parents don't have the money to help us out. Nobody's got any money right now. Which is why I don't understand everyone saying "omg it has to be like this!" How can we make it this way if we don't have the money to do it? Guh.

[dreamingpixels]

*hugs* Thanks. It was just so frustrating dealing with everyone trying to tell us what our wedding should be like. I'm so glad I'm home and don't have to deal with it anymore.

[dreamingpixels]

Oh, you don't know just how tempting that is. :D